What is your relationship with time and how is it impacting your manifestation process
What Is Your Relationship With Time & How Is It Impacting Your Manifestation Process
Time is a fascinating concept to me - When my clients in different timezones leave me voxer notes saying I hope this message isn’t disturbing your sleep, I always reply the same.
Please don’t apologise, after all there is no such thing as time. There is only this one perfect moment, the moment you felt like sending the message and the time I received it.
The boundaries around when I hear or read the message are up to me to create.
This weekend in Europe we experienced Daylight Savings, which our USA counterparts experienced two weeks ago.
This manipulation of time - underscores the notion that time does not exist.
Time - as in the numbers on the clock are a man-made construct so that we arrive at places at the moment we are supposed to be there for. Useful yes, but not real.
When I think back to my days in physics class I learned that
Time = Distance / Speed
And in the world of designing and creating a life you love, this formula shows us the very reason for our resistance to allowing the life we want to create come to us.
When you work with me you will know that we discuss at length how your brain is concerned with 2 things:
SPACE (or distance) & TIME
Your brain is designed to know what the SPACE is between you and a safe space and the TIME it will take your body to physically get to that space if a tiger came into the room right now. It applies this same principle to everything you want to do in your life.
When you have clarity over what you want your life to be your brain will use this same approach. For example if you are:
Wanting to create a successful business which allows you to move away from your 9-5
Wants to move Country or State
Wanting to see a significant change in the circumstances in your life regarding health, wealth, relationships, professional life etc.
Your brain becomes acutely aware of the SPACE or DISTANCE between where you are now and where you want to be.
The perception of the space between where you are and where you want to be is based on your perception of the enormity of what you are trying to create in your life.
Earn €20,000 per month - when you have only ever earned €3,500 per month seems like a big jump
Move Country - when you don’t speak the language, don’t have a job lined up, have no social network there seems like a huge task
Increase your wealth & health - when you have never achieved such results in your life before, can seem undoable.
So your brain offers this to you ……..
TIME = Distance or Space / Speed
In other words:
Its such a big thing, its going to take such a long time = I am so far from where I want to be / Speed
Do you see what happens here - you think you have to solve for SPEED.
SOOOOOOOOOO…………
You jump to ACTION.
You look all around you for all the things you can do and you do them, whether they are the right actions for you or not, do not enter into the equation afterall YOU HAVE SO MUCH TO DO IN SUCH A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME!!
And here is where your brain is playing tricks on you.
It offers its logical opinion on why you should take particular action.
It doesn’t care that the action has no real benefit or compounding effect on where you are going in your life.
The logical action offered may look like:
Buying all the courses to learn all the things
Hand in your notice without any real plan in place
Go on social media and declare all you are doing
What happens?
You see no progress.
ZERO.
And the distance or space between where you want to be and where you are seems even further away.
And your brain has all the reasons it can possibly think of why you shouldn’t dream such lofty things for yourself.
It offers you limiting thoughts like:
See I told you, you couldn’t do this
People like you don’t run successful businesses
Its never going to happen for you.
Lovely - Thanks Brain!
But here is the thing.
Your brain is rubbish at understanding time.
Your inner being however - IS THE MASTER OF TIMING.
Your inner being knows exactly what is needed to get you where you want to be, and when you connect with this the speed with which your life changes will surprise and delight you EVERY SINGLE TIME.
Your very clever inner being speaks to you through your body, but for many of us this disconnect with our body, a highly activated nervous system and a very loud brain which loves to play on repeat all of your limiting & conditioned beliefs means we cannot always tune into and receive its wisdom.
You know the sensation you get when you need to pee?
For obvious reasons we are able to identify that sensation in our body. But we have been deconditioned to become acutely aware of ALL of the sensations of our body through which our inner being speaks to us.
Imagine if you had the same level of clarity of sensation when you need to pee, as when you needed to know what your next right move was to get you closer to your desired life outcome. When your body spoke to you so clearly your life was always moving forward.
When you are attuned to your inner being, can manage your brain's thought errors and can regulate your own nervous system TIME means nothing.
When you are in this state you:
ARE THE MASTER OF TIME and you
DANCE THROUGH TIME & THUS YOUR LIFE
YOU BE IN TIME & THUS YOUR LIFE
YOUR FEEL SAFETY TO ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT
& you DISPLAY GRACE FOR YOURSELF.
And this is what I want for all of you and your relationship with time.
I want you to prioritize your relationship with your INNER BEING above all else.
When you know how to prioritise your inner being and create safety in your nervous system you move away from thinking about what you should be doing and you start allowing your joy, ease and pleasure of life to express itself through you.
To help you connect with your inner being and individual meaningfulness I use Human Design & Gene Keys as my tools of choice.
Cultivating a deep and intimate knowledge of yourself and what magic you have locked up inside of your heart is a fundamental part of designing a life you love.
Self trust, cultivating a deep sense of knowing that you are worthy of actualising your desires & soothing your nervous system are key skills I teach my clients in my Design A Life You Love Coaching Program.
During our time together my clients get to know themselves and connect with their desires on such a deep level that they know no matter what the physical evidence is in their now reality, they will achieve that which they set out to achieve.
My clients learn unwavering Self Trust & they become the Master of their destiny.
This is achieved by helping my clients to use their brains & bodies as they were uniquely designed to be used.
I help them understand their current decision making systems, their meaning making systems, their thought processing systems etc and I help them set up sustainable systems using their unique human design & gene keys so they can spend more time intuiting, experiencing pleasure & enjoying every moment of their life.
I teach them how to become an active observer of their own lives. Living consciously in them & choosing with intention how much pleasure they want to experience at any moment.
Learning to manage your brain and think your way into pleasurable states, actions & results is a key theme in my Design A Life You Love coaching program.
Better feeling thoughts, lead to better feeling actions & that leads to better feeling results.
Learning to manage your brain is a key skill I will teach you in my Design A Life You Love coaching program. I will show you how to tune into and lead with your unique intuition, manage your mind, develop a high level of emotional intelligence & awareness for yourself, regulate your nervous system and how to pattern disrupt your own thought errors & behaviours so that you can design, create & live the lives you know they are innately worthy of.
I love what I do helping intelligent, curious people to manage their brains, gain clarity on their desires & tune into their unique intuition to Design Lives They Love.
We are meant to be unique and individual and we are meant to share our individuality with the world.
Your individual meaningfulness can be on any scale, it can be running your own company, being a freelance writer, starting your own business, starting your own farm, being an artist solely for the sake of making art, being a parent……. The list is truly endless.
Your individual meaningfulness is how you express the you-est you to the world.
What I know for sure from the women I have had the privilege to work with is when these women connected with their individual meaningfulness through their unique human design & gene keys and we proactively & compassionately designed lives they loved, their lives got better and better.
They began leading and living their lives based on their intuitive impulses and life got easier. More flow, more white space to process ideas & information, more connection, better communication, more inspiration, more place, more surrender, more pleasure, more joy and more ease.
And that is what you will experience if you started leading your life based on the answer to one question, what would you be doing right now if your only concern was how to be the You-est, you could ever be.
Designing a life you love is a very powerful process. It is taking the creative control back into your hands 100%. It is scary but the woman you birth through the experience is the most delicious and yummiest you, you can ever imagine.
Are you ready to lean into all your deliciousness?
I work with the most incredible people and I hope you are next.
These women are designing and creating lives they love with purpose & intention. They are living their lives intuitively and with ease. They are experiencing divine wisdom through stillness, presence in their lives, surrender and flow.
Throughout your time working with me you will achieve:
Clarity of your vision
High levels of emotional intelligence
An understanding of your unique communication style
An ability to reset your nervous system to neutral in any situation
A clear channel with your unique inbuilt intuitive decision making system
Deep knowledge of your brain and how thoughts & beliefs are formed by you
An understanding of your personal meaning making systems
A second brain system to help file and store ideas, inspirations, distractions, procrastinations etc
Focused and continued attention in the direction of your desired outcome
Trust in yourself & your worthiness to create & receive
Total acceptance of the belief that you can have, do or be anything your heart desires.
If you would like to learn more about working with me I would love to invite you deeper into my work through my coaching program:
Design A Life You Love Coaching Program:
A 1:1 intimate program is for you if you are ready to start living your personal and professional lives 100% on your terms. If the trajectory of your life currently feels unfilling and unsatisfactory to you this program is designed specifically for you. Living with purpose and intention is truly possible for you, the world needs more of your individual meaningfulness shared with it.
I am so excited to take the next step of working together, feel free to email me now if you are ready for your next level expansion.
When I meet with a client I want to hear all about the life they are dreaming of creating.
I don’t see their past, I see their power and their potential.
I love Human Design - it gives us all of the information about all of the stars and planets that make up exactly who you are.
You are a piece of the universe in motion and it is my job as your coach to help you unleash those universal forces inside of you and help you decide what you need to do to create the life of your dreams.
It is my job to make you realise what is inside of you.
To help you decide who you truly want to be and decide what changes you need to make to realise this reality.
My dream is for every amazing female I meet or engage with to live her life on her terms. How different would the world be if every woman was living life through her dream life?
Each time I work with a client the process is unique and tailored for their individual needs and dreams. A unique individual like you needs a bespoke approach to your dreams.
If you would like to deep dive into your dreams with me using your human design, gene keys & general life coaching to design your life on your terms then hit reply.
If you would like to start getting ready to receive your desires and feel called to work with me you can get in touch with me here to arrange your Design a Life Your Love Consult Call.
