My love hate relationship with Human Design
My Love Hate Relationship With Human Design
For those of you who are new to my world, I ADORE COACHING.
I adore when I am coaching and when I am being coached.
I love changing my brain, my reality, my results and ultimately my life through the work I do in my self coaching & with my own coach.
I have had a Life Coach since I was 21 and when I first hired her, life was pretty SH*T!
I was working in property, and the ass was falling out of the world markets, not just the Irish one. I was at the time cheap labour for my employer so keeping my job was possible for me. Each week however, I watched the cull happen in the office, individuals being called into the boardroom and leaving in tears. It was awful.
I was miserable, YET, I was supposed to be thankful I had a job. Thank you capitalism for making me believe this!
While I wasn't being made redundant, I was having a weekly pay cut.
Eventually it got the point where it was costing me more to get to the office than what I was earning being there for 10 straight hours straight.
Eventually, the pain got so bad, I knew something had to change.
I invested in my Life Coach, told my parents how much it cost and that I didn't know what I would get out of it, but what I did know is I could no longer sustain my current situation and would try anything.
My fathers words were ………. Well that is the most LA thing I have ever heard!
Not a surprising comment for a man from the west of Ireland.
Three weeks later after he saw the changes in me, he hired her too.
Later towards my early thirties I experienced what I would now call a spiritual awakening.
I looked around at the life I had very carefully curated and felt that all too familiar feeling of miserableness.
What was wrong with me, I had a great job, a beautiful apartment, snazzy car, beautiful clothes, money in the bank …… Why did I feel like this and more importantly how selfish of me to even think this wasn't good enough?!
So I did what I always do. I seeked out THE BEST coaches, teachers, mentors I could to figure out what was going on with me.
This is when Human Design came across my path.
Initially, I started with implementing some of the information I was reading & learning about.
Things started to shift.
I felt a coming home to myself, I felt I could be more me.
The way I secretly desired to live my life, made sense because I could understand from my bodygraph why I was designed to live that way.
I found the tool of Human Design so useful I had to learn it for myself. Which if you have ever seen the textbooks in real life is no mean feat!"
The textbooks and content is super unsexy.
It is not a study that reveals all the secrets of the universe to you.
It is like reading a biology & physics textbook all in one!
After my studies I integrated all I learned and my life took off.
Everything got easier, I became more unapologetic about who I was, who I wanted to be and who I am continuing to become.
As I subsequently got Certified as an ICF Coach I knew with certainty that Human Design would be a tool I use to help my clients Design A Life they love.
I want you to notice here that I keep using the word tool to describe Human Design.
It is not a way of life nor is it the answer to your questions, it is simply a tool I use as a Coach to help you understand what your unique way of life is.
The tool helps me and you articulate with precision what is happening in your brain, nervous system, body, mind, spirit and energetic aura at any moment in time.
Believe me when I say I LOVE HUMAN DESIGN for the gift it gives me. It allows me to help clients gain clarity and create a state sufficiency in who they are and what they desire.
Human Design combined with the other coaching tools I use, allows me to help my clients cultivate SELF TRUST, SELF LOVE & understand SELF ENERGY.
Everyone that works with me is whole and complete exactly as they are, my only job is to help them believe that about themselves unequivocally.
BUT
There is something I hate about Human Design.
And that is LABELS.
As a Human Design Guide I understand the purpose of the labels.
Labels like Manifesting Generator, Generator, Reflector, Projector, Manifestor, 6/2 Profile, Emotional Authority, Self projected etc only have one purpose and that is to help me as your Guide file all of the information in the text books, into easily manageable chunks of information so that I can recall it when needed in a session with a client.
The labels are simply a filing system which allows me to hold the information in my brain.
They are NOT and never will be a prescriptive list of who you are, what you are capable of and what magic you hold inside of you.
The information in the textbook, the labels etc, is devoid of the information, belief systems, social conditioning, wisdom & possible traumas you hold in your body due to your personal circumstances.
And for this reason it was very important for me as a Coach to integrate my Life Coaching, Human Design, Gene Keys, Trauma and Trauma of Money studies to help you get the most out of your time working with me.
To narrow who you are down to some simple labels is unjust.
It does not do you or the cosmos of stars, magic and wonder that exists inside of you any justice.
Spending time with my clients getting to know them on a very deep level is very important to me (it is also part of my own unique Human Design to do this), so that we get to know and expose as much of your magic as possible during our time together.
Labels have a place.
Niches have a place.
The basic human need we all have for connected, safe & social interactions/situations is facilitated by the use of labels.
But that is all they are useful for, for helping our brains quickly access where we might get those feelings of connection, safety and societal recognition.
Beyond that they cannot and never will fully express all that you are, all that you can be and all that you will be.
You, your self trust, your self energy, your self love, your desires, your safety, your sense of sufficiency and your willingness to dare are the only things that can determine that.
No coach can give that to you, a good coach can only give you the tools you need to harness the magic and wisdom that you know exists inside of you. They should show you how to connect with that magic and encourage you to wield that power in everything that you do.
So yes, Human Design is fabby, but it is not the be all and end all.
You are.
I see the gorgeous people I work with, uplevel again and again into the people they dreamed of being when we first met. I witness their life designs unfolding in the most exquisite and decadent ways you can ever imagine.
My goal is always to help my clients connect with the wisdom of their INNER BEING so they become magnetic and potent in all that they create, design and actualize in their lives.
If you are ready to actualise your life design and prioritize your relationship with your inner being my Design A Life You Love coaching program is what you have been searching for.
I want you to prioritize your relationship with your INNER BEING above all else.
When you know how to prioritise your inner being and create safety in your nervous system you move away from thinking about what you should be doing and you start allowing your joy, ease and pleasure of life to express itself through you.
To help you connect with your inner being and individual meaningfulness I use Human Design & Gene Keys as my tools of choice.
Cultivating a deep and intimate knowledge of yourself and what magic you have locked up inside of your heart is a fundamental part of designing a life you love.
Self trust, cultivating a deep sense of knowing that you are worthy of actualising your desires & soothing your nervous system are key skills I teach my clients in my Design A Life You Love Coaching Program.
During our time together my clients get to know themselves and connect with their desires on such a deep level that they know no matter what the physical evidence is in their now reality, they will achieve that which they set out to achieve.
My clients learn unwavering Self Trust & they become the Master of their destiny.
This is achieved by helping my clients to use their brains & bodies as they were uniquely designed to be used.
I help them understand their current decision making systems, their meaning making systems, their thought processing systems etc and I help them set up sustainable systems using their unique human design & gene keys so they can spend more time intuiting, experiencing pleasure & enjoying every moment of their life.
I teach them how to become an active observer of their own lives. Living consciously in them & choosing with intention how much pleasure they want to experience at any moment.
Learning to manage your brain and think your way into pleasurable states, actions & results is a key theme in my Design A Life You Love coaching program.
Better feeling thoughts, lead to better feeling actions & that leads to better feeling results.
Learning to manage your brain is a key skill I will teach you in my Design A Life You Love coaching program. I will show you how to tune into and lead with your unique intuition, manage your mind, develop a high level of emotional intelligence & awareness for yourself, regulate your nervous system and how to pattern disrupt your own thought errors & behaviours so that you can design, create & live the lives you know they are innately worthy of.
I love what I do helping intelligent, curious people to manage their brains, gain clarity on their desires & tune into their unique intuition to Design Lives They Love.
We are meant to be unique and individual and we are meant to share our individuality with the world.
Your individual meaningfulness can be on any scale, it can be running your own company, being a freelance writer, starting your own business, starting your own farm, being an artist solely for the sake of making art, being a parent……. The list is truly endless.
Your individual meaningfulness is how you express the you-est you to the world.
What I know for sure from the women I have had the privilege to work with is when these women connected with their individual meaningfulness through their unique human design & gene keys and we proactively & compassionately designed lives they loved, their lives got better and better.
They began leading and living their lives based on their intuitive impulses and life got easier. More flow, more white space to process ideas & information, more connection, better communication, more inspiration, more place, more surrender, more pleasure, more joy and more ease.
And that is what you will experience if you started leading your life based on the answer to one question, what would you be doing right now if your only concern was how to be the You-est, you could ever be.
Designing a life you love is a very powerful process. It is taking the creative control back into your hands 100%. It is scary but the woman you birth through the experience is the most delicious and yummiest you, you can ever imagine.
Are you ready to lean into all your deliciousness?
I work with the most incredible people and I hope you are next.
These women are designing and creating lives they love with purpose & intention. They are living their lives intuitively and with ease. They are experiencing divine wisdom through stillness, presence in their lives, surrender and flow.
Throughout your time working with me you will achieve:
Clarity of your vision
High levels of emotional intelligence
An understanding of your unique communication style
An ability to reset your nervous system to neutral in any situation
A clear channel with your unique inbuilt intuitive decision making system
Deep knowledge of your brain and how thoughts & beliefs are formed by you
An understanding of your personal meaning making systems
A second brain system to help file and store ideas, inspirations, distractions, procrastinations etc
Focused and continued attention in the direction of your desired outcome
Trust in yourself & your worthiness to create & receive
Total acceptance of the belief that you can have, do or be anything your heart desires.
If you would like to learn more about working with me I would love to invite you deeper into my work through my coaching program:
Design A Life You Love Coaching Program:
A 1:1 intimate program is for you if you are ready to start living your personal and professional lives 100% on your terms. If the trajectory of your life currently feels unfilling and unsatisfactory to you this program is designed specifically for you. Living with purpose and intention is truly possible for you, the world needs more of your individual meaningfulness shared with it.
I am so excited to take the next step of working together, feel free to email me now if you are ready for your next level expansion.
When I meet with a client I want to hear all about the life they are dreaming of creating.
I don’t see their past, I see their power and their potential.
I love Human Design - it gives us all of the information about all of the stars and planets that make up exactly who you are.
You are a piece of the universe in motion and it is my job as your coach to help you unleash those universal forces inside of you and help you decide what you need to do to create the life of your dreams.
It is my job to make you realise what is inside of you.
To help you decide who you truly want to be and decide what changes you need to make to realise this reality.
My dream is for every amazing female I meet or engage with to live her life on her terms. How different would the world be if every woman was living life through her dream life?
Each time I work with a client the process is unique and tailored for their individual needs and dreams. A unique individual like you needs a bespoke approach to your dreams.
If you would like to deep dive into your dreams with me using your human design, gene keys & general life coaching to design your life on your terms then hit reply.
If you would like to start getting ready to receive your desires and feel called to work with me you can get in touch with me here to arrange your Design a Life Your Love Consult Call.
Keep desiring, keep dreaming & keep believing.
Ann
